Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Healthy Fear of God

For a long time, I have tried to find the appropriate balance to the commands to fear God and to love God. I don't like to be told that I should fear God, but I absolutely know that the Bible tells me that. The problem is that when people have said that, they often seem angry and I feel threatened. Many people say that the word actually means to have respect and awe of God, not really fear. But my search of Greek and Hebrew words did not support that thought. The words usually translated fear actually mean "fear". I don't want a "cop-out" rationalization, I want to understand the truth. 
This week, I have studied 1 1:13-21 to prepare for my Sunday School class. I came to verse 17, " And if you address as Father the One who judges impartially based on each one’s work, you are to conduct yourselves in fear during the time of your temporary residence." I asked God to show me really what it means to fear God with a healthy, appropriate fear. 
Here are my thoughts. 
For the unbeliever, the fear of God is the fear of judgment and eternal death,

Matt 10:28-29
28 "Do not fear those who kill the body but are unable to kill the soul; but ratherfear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.

Those who are children of God do not have to fear God in the same way. 
For the believer, the fear is something much different.
A Biblical fear of God for the believer, includes understanding how much God hates sin and fearing His judgment on sin—even in the life of a believer:
Heb 12:5-11
5 and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons,
"MY SON, DO NOT REGARD LIGHTLY THE DISCIPLINE OF THE LORD,
NOR FAINT WHEN YOU ARE REPROVED BY HIM;
6 FOR THOSE WHOM THE LORD LOVES HE DISCIPLINES,
AND HE SCOURGES EVERY SON WHOM HE RECEIVES."
7 It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline? 8 But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we had earthly fathers to discipline us, and we respected them; shall we not much rather be subject to the Father of spirits, and live? 10 For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. 11 All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.

As children, the fear of discipline kept us from doing bad or harmful things, even though their discipline was not perfect or always done correctly. God disciplines us in love, for our good, so that we will be holy.
We should fear His discipline and seek to obey Him.
Our overwhelming feeling about God should not be fear. God says that the primary thing He wants is our love.
Our fear of God is a fear of the discipline He will bring to correct us, not fear that He will harm us or reject us.
God has promised that He will never leave us. He has promised that nothing can separate us from His love. We are to be confident that He loves us, that He accepts us and will never abandon us. That confidence should motivate us to follow Him and obey Him. But, if we get off track, we can be sure of His discipline to get us back.

During my study, I ran across a quote that I really enjoyed, from Mike Yaconelli

 "I would like to suggest that the Church become a place of terror again; a place where God continually has to tell us, "Fear not"; a place where our relationship with God is not a simple belief or a doctrine or theology, it is God's burning presence in our lives. I am suggesting that the tame God of relevance be replaced by the God whose very presence shatters our egos into dust, burns our sin into ashes, and strips us naked to reveal the real person within. The Church needs to become a gloriously dangerous place where nothing is safe in God's presence except us. Nothing--including our plans, our agendas, our priorities, our politics, our money, our security, our comfort, our possessions, our needs.

That really sums up what I think is an accurate view of the fear of God that is right for a Christian. "Nothing is safe in God's presence EXCEPT US." 

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